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Justice is better than chivalry if we cannot have both!10:36 Feb 20 2011
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In the year I have spent here I have come across many men and I can vouch when I say, not all those who speak of chivalry are gentleman and not all those who rough it out are barbarians. Chivalry is not about the way you speak or the way you dress. It’s a lifestyle! It has to be innate and it doesn’t develop overnight.
To the man who has been spreading rumours about me, of how I was lead on by mistaking your kindness for love ... I have something unladylike to say ... *stick out middle paw* ... there! You sir are not only delusional but you are an inexcusable liar! I am trying my upmost best to maintain my composure but you and your girlfriend are testing my patience. I am so close to sending your personal messages to me to your girlfriend but yet again, I was taught better than that and I am going to hang on to my end of the bargain.
After hearing of your rumours, I was so distraught but I didn’t want to confront you because it would only have brought me down to your level and that would have betrayed my morals. Let me make this very clear to you and all your entourage of fools, I was not pursing you as a love interest! I was not in love with you and thank god I wasn’t! You however did peak my interest but I was fortunate enough to realise that you were nothing but a scam artist. It broke my heart to learn that you would speak ill of me just to keep yourself out of trouble. And even after everything that has happened you can message me and start a conversation like nothing happened. That’s just plain cruel.
You can approach any of my male acquaintance here and they can tell you what kind of a lady I am. I have never ever stepped a toe out of line. I have had men from VR wanting me to be with me but never had I lead them on or behaved in appropriately with them. So you claiming that I was pursing you relentlessly despite the fact that you had a girlfriend ... that is just ridiculous and anyone who believes that are equally stupid.
You call yourself a gentleman when you are willing to tarnish a lady’s reputations in order to save your own. Well done! I hope you feel very high of yourself.
Well thank you for being a part of my virtual life ... You did spice it up ... It was unpleasantly refreshing to see a melodramatic man!
Privacy Issues!!!15:44 Feb 11 2011
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So today Harley messaged me that a google search on his VR name resulted in his photos being displayed. Then I also noticed that another member was talking about the same issue. So I decided to check it out for myself ... and to my horror ... there I was!
My photo was in the google search results ... I feel very uncomfortable about the whole thing. Not only did my photo turn up ... even my protection came up ... and the most uncomfortable part was that the search result contained other explicit pictures.
The affected members are bringing this up to the admins and hopefully they’ll be able to fix this problem as soon as possible.
If you are reading this ... please go google your VR name and see if you are facing the same issue.
And if you think it’s a breach of our privacy please help post in the main forum thread “privacy issues” ...
Here’s the link ...
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FAQ!15:38 Feb 08 2011
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... compiled over 2 days ...
Q : Are you talking about me?
A : I talk about alota crap everyday ... now be specific!
Q : Are you going to steal my boyfriend?
A : Only if he is covered in precious gems.
Q : Will you cyber with me?
A : Do I need to tongue the screen?
Q : Are you a home wrecker?
A : I kicked open a door once ... does that count?
Q : Are you a lesbian?
A : If you are the last guy on earth ... hell yeah!
Q : I want to be a vampire. Will you help me?
A : Sure ... but you bring your own glitter.
Q : Oh you are Asian ... do you speak English? (this idiot asked me this question after 6 msgs)
A : nope ... wads English?
*facepaw* why me!!!
Psychology 101
14:25 Feb 06 2011
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Please stay away from me. I might be a horrible person. After a recent VR episode I have realised that I might not be the nice friendly cubby after all. Fluffy whittle cubby might have lost her innocence!
I have actually judged someone and the worst part is that I can’t un-judge the person. It’s like spilled words that one can never reclaim. The perception I have of this person can’t be amended. The verdict is in. I’m officially a horrible person!
... but then ... today I spoke to a couple of friends and they say it normal to judge. We are humans after. Even though it makes sense ... I still feel terrible about myself ...
The following is a conversation I had with a good friend katanax ... *whispers* ... and yes ladies he is single and super sweet ... you should look him up. A cute boy with some bad ass bikes! The loveliest hair ever!!! Ok Danath ... I’ve said all the things you wrote down for me ... now where’s the 50 dollars you promised me *chuckles*
Fever Dreams says
nuuu .... sad
Danath says
why?
Fever Dreams says
cos I fink imma bad person
Danath says
Now why would you think a thing like that?
Fever Dreams says
cos ... I judged someone ...
*slaps hand* bad fever!!!
Danath says
meh, we learn from experience.
If something looks like a spade it usually is a spade
Fever Dreams says
well I judged a girl as a slut cos she is acting like one
but others love her for god knows wad reason!
Danath says
heh you should design a bumper sticker "Sluts are people too" Meh, we all have more than one quality.... I could be judged as a geek and some people might not like it, but there’s more to me than that
Fever Dreams says
so I am being bad?
Danath says
nah. Just focussing on one aspect of a person’s personality you don't understand or agree with. You can't relate I suppose and because you can't you see it as a negative.
It's normal and natural. Welcome to being a human
Fever Dreams says
*throws herself into your arms and cries*
IM HORRIBLE!!!
OMG!
Danath says
lol! You're totally not
Fever Dreams says
yes I am!!!
Danath says
If you were horrible you'd be perfectly happy with being a bitch. The fact you're so upset is totally contrary to that
Fever Dreams says
really? I don’t know ...
now I bet all my friends think I’m a bad person
Danath says
No they won’t I don’t
If you do get any hassle its for the exact same reason - they're acting negatively about an aspect of your personality that they don’t understand.
Ahhh, psychology
Fever Dreams says
so ... I’m only seeing the 'slut' side of her?
Danath says
Possibly not, but you're focussing on it cause negatives influence us in decision making more than positives. That’s why the news runs so many doom and gloom stories
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Fever Dreams says
wad you said totally made sense!!!!
Danath says
So you're not horrible.
You're awesome and just like the rest of us.
You have your own set of personality traits. Some will like them, some will love them, others, not so much of either
That’s life
Fever Dreams says
how bout u?
do you like my traits
be honest
Danath says
Everything I've seen so far - absolutely
sweet, thoughtful, kind, a bit flirty and sassy. What’s not to like?
Fever Dreams says
even though now that you know by deep dark secret?
I’m a judger!
Danath says
Haha. Subconsciously, everyone is.
Even those who work for charities and stuff, they know what drug addicts are capable of - so even if they're nice to them, they are always on guard ready in case anything happens.
See. It's all in the mind. It's also why we act differently around others we want to like us
Fever Dreams says
okie I need to stop talking to you
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Danath says
Welcome back fever
Fever Dreams says
lol ....
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COMMENTS
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deringerdan
11:37 Feb 20 2011
If i ever find out who this male friend is they will get what they bargained for. because no one messes with my cubby and gets away with it..
BlackenedxWings
12:13 Feb 20 2011
I consider you a friend, and as xLordxZachariasx you're alliance family. My best advice I can give is to block this asshole and ignore his ramblings if he's on here- he's worth no more of your time than you have already invested into this mess.
Angelus
14:12 Feb 20 2011
A Lady. to be respected and honoured.
AngelicDestruction
14:16 Feb 20 2011
Pack sticks together right?
This really pisses me off that someone would do this to you!Our sweet little Cubby DOES NOT DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE THIS!Let me find out who this person is,right along side with papa Dan,i'll make sure they never mess with you again!I swear people are so stupid and will do anything just to get attention from someone like you Cubby,just ignore them babygirl!
foxglove
14:19 Feb 20 2011
Your friends know you and your values. This person cannot tarnish your image in our eyes. All he does is show himself as the fool he truly is.
LunasiLupulei
15:16 Feb 20 2011
Knowing what I do, I will swear that the rumors are false. I hate that insecurity and fear lead to this spreading of falsehoods. Cubby behaved respectfully at all times including the friendship mentioned above.
As for the ones spreading this nonsense, I know you and you know me. I am very disappointed in you, both of you. I am warning you now. Leave FeverDreams alone. Stop it right here and now like adults or my next steps will not be lady-like nor kind. I love you but you are behaving poorly and need to be reminded that how you treat people is a better judge of your character than how many friends you have and who they are.
Luna
radu
16:34 Feb 20 2011
I have known you long enough to say you are a lady and if someone says different they can come to me and talik.
Ozmanitis
16:38 Feb 20 2011
I know this charming young lady fairly well. And I can attend to her good reputation. anybody who would soil that rep for the own ego. is a cad and will answer to me and my blade.
xxPAYNExx
20:23 Feb 20 2011
Unlike the others, I do not know you. But just from reading this I can tell that you are above and beyond most. You are angry yet make it a point to keep names and specifics out of this.
Admiral and very ladylike....Kudos to you!